Don't tell me that you are trying to let me know something I need to know according to your satisfaction, or before that, at least give me the reason that I need to obey.
Then, think about it, what make you the best need the rest to obey?
We all need to learn communicate with others by reasonable way, and also everything should be process by making sense. If there are conflicts making someone uncomfortable, please express it by reasonable way, or it won't make any help.
I won't do anything what make no sense for me, but I also believe that
I am communicate-able, only in communicate-able way.